OH has a female friend, says hes known her since he was little but she has only recently made an appearance that I am aware of and I'm not sure I'm comfortable with it. On asking him about her they had something happen once years ago but hes been vague on details of what, he has said that in the past he has wondered if he should be with her.
This alone would be enough to make me wary but there have been at least two occasions during lockdown where she has text him to see if he wants to go for a drink and he has just gone, even though he is supposed to be working from home. Today I was supposed to take him to the garage to collect his car but she has taken him instead.
He says she is married and invited me to meet her and her husband but given the things I've read on here and known a friend who had an affair do that doesn't mean much. I'm too embarrassed to talk to anyone irl about it so tell me, am I crazy?