Affair?

[IansGal2512]

Anyone know what this is? Found in DH things after he was away for a week.

I agree it looks like a yoga mat strap.

Fookinhell its a bit out of order to confidently say its from a bikini top which would cause upset to the op as she's already suspecting the worst and then immediately after to say you think it is anyway.

I think it will depend where and what he went away for and if that's the truth.

Fookinhell its a bit out of order to confidently say its from a bikini top which would cause upset to the op as she's already suspecting the worst

No, come on, OP would be able to tell the difference between a yoga mat strap and a bikini strap by size and material.

There would be no confusion between a yoga mat strap and a bikini strap if you saw it, unless it was a very generously sized bikini

@AvoidingRealHumans

I agree it looks like a yoga mat strap.

Fookinhell its a bit out of order to confidently say its from a bikini top which would cause upset to the op as she's already suspecting the worst and then immediately after to say you think it is anyway.

I think it will depend where and what he went away for and if that's the truth.

Ffs. Better to tell her

Is there anything else to suggest he's having an affair, other than this strip of material? It seems a giant leap to assume he's cheating from this.

What I meant was she confidently said it was from a bikini which would confirm op's fears but then in her next comment she said she thinks so anyway. So she wasn't 100% sure as her first comment suggested.
If she had just said I think that is a bikini top as I have similar it would have been different.

That's definitely a yoga/pilates mat carrying strap. For a thin, lightweight mat by the looks of it.

As you are leaping to the thought that this indicates an affair, perhaps you need to take a look at your marriage and work out what is going wrong.

@Hopoindown31

As you are leaping to the thought that this indicates an affair, perhaps you need to take a look at your marriage and work out what is going wrong.

The trouble is though sometimes there is nothing wrong going wrong from one spouse's perspective. It's only when these little oddities occur that the previously unsuspecting spouse starts asking questions.

Did you get to the bottom of this OP?

This - in isolation - is pretty thin evidence OP.

Do you suspect him of cheating for other reasons or is this the only thing?

What’s the measurements?

Yes looks like a yoga strip mat (from a quick google). He denied knowledge which is suspicious and it looks very girly. Any tags or anything on it?