How do I prove she's crazy ? He doesn't believe me?

[saddff]

I started working at a new job September 2019.
I became friends with a girl and we got on well.
We started going on nights out/weekends away etc.
On a night out she introduced me to one of her guy friends (told me he was a player but encouraged me if I wanted to have fun for the night to go for it )
Anyway me and him got on great,we started texting and had some dates.
She changed on me altogether,stopped texting,stopped wanting to hang out.
On a date he told me she warned him off me saying I slept around (I don't ) that I was clingy (I'm not ) and I was like his ex (who he had a bad relationship with )
She made it difficult and told him if he wanted to remain friends with her he could but she would not socialise with me.
I seen her in a pub and went over and asked her if she was ok,I said I'm sorry if I offended her in some way and could we meet for a cuppa and a chat.
She said yes she would text me.
The next day he rang me really angry "I've spoke to "Alice" why did you threaten her last night ? This is too much like my ex's behaviour " and hung up.
I didn't threaten her.
She told him I ran up debts in my ex's name,I stalked my ex boyfriend and I was bad news.
I tried calling him 3 times no answer
I sent him 2 texts explaining that she was twisting and lying.
He's reply was long saying
"Your a liar,my friend is not a liar,I don't know what game your trying to play,leave me alone or il call the police,your crazy"
Then blocked me
She's totally ruined this
What the hell
How do I prove it ?

I think this tells you everything you know about the pair of them.
Forget them both

She’s in love with him, leave them both to it

sorry, everything you need to know, that should say

Be interesting to hear crazy ex number ones take on things wouldn't it ?

Honestly though, he is not a keeper, he is always going to believe his friends account, whether that is by design from him or her, something is off either way and you are well out of it.

I also would love to hear his ex's version of events too.
It's almost like he wanted to think poor of me.
He was still on my FB and he uploaded a pic about a crazy woman and she commented
"I saved your arse there ha ha"
That was aimed at me
He 100% believes everything.

I wonder if his crazy Ex was such a crazy ex.

Sounds like she wants him but is playing a game where he goes out with other women and the ones he doesn’t like last one date but if it develops then she feeds him a load of crap so that he dumps and runs and then eventually she will be the last one standing.

Think of it as a lucky escape and be thankful you can move on.

So basically he isn't even hurting at the loss of someone he supposedly liked. He's making jokes about it the same evening.
... Not to mention, shit stirring, again.

Block them both on fb. And any 'friends' that might share your buisness with them in the future.

@saddff

He 100% believes everything.

Let him, you need to care about what the people who really know you think, people who are so easily swayed are not worth the headspace.

Lucky escape.

I guess if I think rationally
If he had enough feelings for me he wouldn't have believed her so easy.

@Pollypocket89

You don't, they both sound like idiots. You don't need the drama

This!

They have both messed with your head. You have had a lucky escape. Don't look back

They've been friends for years.
I suppose you can understand why he would believe her over someone he's only known a few months🤷‍♀️

"I guess if I think rationally
If he had enough feelings for me he wouldn't have believed her so easy"

You're right and he believes who he wants to and for whatever reason feels more loyal to his friend, just cut them both off it's not worth any more of your time.

Don't bother he will find out one day and it will be his loss and he will realise what a idiot he is but you will be happy with someone else and he will be gutted xxxx

She'll always be the FWB never 'the one' .. so more fool her 🌺

Omg what a pair of weirdos! I completely get all the comment saying take it as a learning experience and move
On, but I would be like you I would have to prove him wrong then tell him to fuck off. Could you I maybe text her like Hiya was nice to see you at the pub! When did you want to meet up? And see if she replies, if she replies all normal and friendly
Send it to him some way (maybe social media if you still have him on there) and say strange she hasn’t mentioned me
Apparently screaming at her? Speak to any of my exes and they will all tell you I’m normal,
Could your ex say the same you attention seeking freak. BYE.. okay maybe not the last part but

Although saying that, I think of of pure cheek I wouldn’t speak to him ever again?! So either way I don’t blame you.. I would be so pissed off he believes her that easy! Like if your friend was like ok he’s abit if a weirdo but you liked him,
You would think ok thanks for the heads up but il see for myself?! Sounds like your a pawn in between their weird friendship! Was
Probably her who convinced him his ex was a narcissist

@BlueThistles

She'll always be the FWB never 'the one' .. so more fool her 🌺

Who would want to be his "one"? 😂 Nutters the both of them.

Keeping walking and don't look back, OP.

Are you sure it is her saying those things and not him lying and stopping you from joining his outings?

He sounds odd op and if she was fine and friendly before I dont understand why she would turn like that.

Who would want to be his "one"? 😂

this psychotic friend sounds like she does 🤣

It's deffo her doing all the crazy stuff.
I've seen texts from her to him.
At the beginning he text asking her to sort it out and her reply was "no she's done too much to me,no going back"
She knew he would pick her over me.
Also a mutual friend (well not anymore as I'm cutting ties with everyone connected to them ) showed me a screenshot from her about me..
"I probably would have let sleepy dogs lie but she threatened me,I felt really unsafe and vulnerable,I don't want him to get hurt,we need to stay away from her"
I couldn't believe what I was reading.

Has anyone seen the movie "unforgettable" with Katherine Heigl ?
She reminds me exactly of that woman.

Do you still work with her? What a weird person, I think al you can take out of this is that you will certainly have a better happier life than either of them

@HumptyD no thank goodness.
Although she also told him I was lying about having a new job and I wasn't actually working ???
I nearly showed him my pay slips but thought f*%# that for a laugh!