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Cheating partner

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Whitterz28 · 09/09/2020 23:18

I am pregnant and 3 months in I went through my partners phone and found that he had been looking for escorts and girls to spoil it went back a year on his history and also had Google mapped addresses of them ..he was adiment that he never visited them so booked a lie detector test and passed ...I still find it so hard to believe you would Google map these address but of not proceeded

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Mintlegs · 09/09/2020 23:22

The intent was there. What an arsehole he is. Do you want your children to see him as a role model? You deserve better

seensome · 09/09/2020 23:23

The intention was there though, not good
Sorry to hear this

user1469989812 · 09/09/2020 23:27

Sorry you're going through this Flowers. Has he said why he was looking them up if he had no intention of visiting them? My google maps history saves everything I click on that has a maps page on it, not that that makes it any better but it doesn't necessarily mean he's searched up the addresses himself.

Closetbeanmuncher · 10/09/2020 01:17

I smell bullshit. Std test ASAP.

ChristmasFluff · 10/09/2020 13:42

Psychopaths and other habitual liars can fool lie detector tests, because the truth has no value to them.

Normal people value the truth, and so prefer to tell the truth rather than a lie. If they do choose to lie, they find it stressful.

A psychopath or other habitual liar has no relationship with the truth, and give it no value - they are just as happy to lie as to tell the truth, which is why most will lie about pointless things. So they feel no stress in a lie detector test.

SandyY2K · 10/09/2020 13:54

What's his explanation for looking?

LadyH846 · 10/09/2020 14:33

Looking for escorts is not normal. This is probably something he has done before and will look to do again in the future.

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Whitterz28 · 11/09/2020 11:16

He has admitted to searching the addresses..and admits he had intentions but said he couldn't go thought with it

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Closetbeanmuncher · 11/09/2020 23:14

What's his excuse for looking

I'm betting it was "I was curious" 💩💩💩

Closetbeanmuncher · 11/09/2020 23:18

Have you been on Mumsnet long @Whitterz28?

In all other posts with the same topic literally every single one of the bin diving husband's/boyfriends comes out with the "couldn't go through with it" line when they've been caught out.

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Whitterz28 · 12/09/2020 06:50

No im new to it...its just typical ..I definitely never believed it from the beginning..but just nice to see what others say. I hate him for doing it ..let alone whilst I'm pregnant manipulate asshole.

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TheClitterati · 12/09/2020 08:29

Who performed the lie detector test? Cause I bet it's a stitch up one way or another.

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Whitterz28 · 12/09/2020 11:53

It was this one she came to my home
www.veritaspolygraph.co.uk/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIi_Gp2bnj6wIV44BQBh1fxAc-EAAYAiAAEgKQXfD_BwE

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