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Random sex dreams

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ItsmineAllmine · 06/09/2020 21:22

Possibly posting in the wrong place but anyway....this is a strange situation and I'm a bit Blush

I'm straight. In an ok but a bit samey marriage with DH (in that way it gets with 2 young kids, work, etc). Never had a same sex sexual experience, never thought I wabted one.

I'm in my late 30s. Saw on FB that an old school friend (who I'm not really in touch with and haven't seen for 20 years) is now in a lesbian relationship. For the past few nights I've been having proper full on sex dreams about me and her. I feel really weird, i would about any sex dream with someone i didn't fancy but it's like this dream situation has made me wonder whether I've got some sort of sub conscious same sex attraction thing going on that I've never really considered before. I actually quite like the thought of being with another woman now Shock

WTF is going on?? Can anyone relate?!?!

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Lifeislikeaboxofchocolat · 06/09/2020 21:27

So just to clarify, if the opportunity arose of your old friend propositioning you for sex, yoU would be aroused? Up for it?

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ItsmineAllmine · 06/09/2020 21:39

No i don't think so. I'm not attracted to her, i don't fancy her. But it's like my dreams have opened up a part of my mind that I didn't know was there. The thought of being with another woman is a big turn on, but I have never fancied another woman (not even the one I've been dreaming about).

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orangejuicer · 06/09/2020 21:42

I have had numerous sex dreams about people I know and celebrities, going back 15-20 years. They don't mean anything don't worry.

willowmelangell · 06/09/2020 22:05

Sex dreams, I have had some great ones. Sexy women ones too. I just assume I am mixing up a mild sex frustration with some attractive person I have seen a picture/film of recently.

Heard of nocturnal orgasm? Had that as well. I remember one with Sylvester Stallone. Woke up happy, smile on my face all day. Had another with Gene Simmons of Kiss band fame. Wouldn't look at him twice in real life, but I had just watched some MTV thing with him in.
Don't even worry about some deep meaning. Maybe you just want some something different in your bedroom.

borntohula · 06/09/2020 23:11

I've had many sex dreams about women and I'm pretty straight. I wouldn't worry.

Spritesobright · 06/09/2020 23:18

I wouldn't worry about it. It probably doesn't mean what you think.
A psychologist once told me that dreams about sex with a family member are quite common (not what you're having, I know) and apparently that just means you crave closeness with that person.
Maybe you should get in touch with your friend just to catch up.
Maybe seeing her reminds you of your youth and you miss it.
I really don't think it means you're a lesbian.

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