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Cheating wife - advice needed!

10 replies

SP11 · 31/08/2020 23:35

"As I’m writing this i feel like an absolute mug! When I write it down I know I should leave her but I do love her and think that if this stops out life would be great."

I saw this thread on Dadsnet >
www.thedadsnet.com/forums/topic/cheating-wife-advice-wanted/

What would you advise?

OP posts:
RedDiamond · 31/08/2020 23:52

Really? You need two forums. Don't you like the advice on Dadsnet?

TheUnquestionedAnswer · 31/08/2020 23:56

He's probably bumping here for traffic @RedDiamond

Lifeislikeaboxofchocolat · 01/09/2020 00:01

Well after what I just read on dadsnet your wife likes playing the field. I’m sorry but you sound like you’re willing to take any scraps she offers you. If you’re happy with that then carry on, I personally would suggest to man up and tell her to piss off and do one but that’s your call.

CheshireChat · 01/09/2020 00:03

Is that your thread on DN I'm guessing?

So she's cheated on you and then is cheating on both you and the OM with another guy? Did I get that right?

Delbelleber · 01/09/2020 00:03

Going by what you've written I think you should end it with her. She hadn't been respeful of you at all and I don't think she loves you to be carrying on with other men like that. Time to move on and keep calm for the sake of the kids.

Delbelleber · 01/09/2020 00:04

Sorry about typos Blush

SandyY2K · 01/09/2020 00:06

Another page for support on infidelity is www.survivinginfidelity.com.com

Great well balanced views from men and women who have been where you are.

RedDiamond · 01/09/2020 00:21

No one deserves to have no respect for themselves.

Separate with her and give yourself back some self respect. She is not worthy of all the pain she is causing you.

Dontletitbeyou · 01/09/2020 00:24

Sorry , but she has been carrying on with 2 different men ( that you know of ) behind your back . I think it’s highly likely there are more that you don’t know about . She lies to you about meeting up with one for a drink , telling you she’s doing something different .
When you first got with her you say she had been involved with a married man . That should have given you a hint that morals were never going to be her strong point .
If you are determined to stay with her , that’s up to you , but know that every time she’s going out , you are going to have that nagging doubt that she’s actually meeting someone else , and sometimes you will probably be right . Not many people could live like that , I know I couldn’t .

wombat1a · 01/09/2020 06:32

Pack her bags and chuck her out, she has the choice of multiple places to sleep so it's not like she'll be homeless.

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