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Iloveme30 · 26/08/2020 01:05

Does anyone's husband watch porn on front of them ! Not for too long a brief look now and again Confused

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FortunesFave · 26/08/2020 02:51

Nope! My husband stopped watching porn when I explained to him that a large proportion of the women are victims. Either of historical abuse and/or trafficing.

Some of those women are being held against their will and MADE to make those films.

Some aren't...sure...but how can you know?

You can't.

Once I explained that to him, he stopped completely. Said it made him feel nauseous that he'd ever watched it in the first place.

Having children would have stopped him anyway. Those girls are someone's child.

GunsAndShips · 26/08/2020 03:04

DH likes books about the military in the age of horse and muskets. Also, Terry Pratchett.

So, in short, no.

Iloveme30 · 26/08/2020 03:16

Thanks for your replies, hmm 🤔 I was thinking it's a bit cheeky.
I don't mind porn per se well I'm not over the moon with him looking but I wouldn't want to be lied to about it and if I pushed he'd just do it behind my back and we are very open with each other . I can't police his online use I guess I've never been with anyone who doesn't watch

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Welliesandwishes · 26/08/2020 04:48

My DH watches in bed and Jack's off next to me while I'm sleeping..... See my thread 'am I being unreasonable'
I think it's disgusting

FortunesFave · 26/08/2020 07:16

Well you might 'not mind' porn but you should educate yourself about it.

cheeseislife8 · 26/08/2020 07:32

This would not be ok with me personally

Kittykat93 · 26/08/2020 07:40

He randomly looks at it infront of you? Don't people use it purely for the purpose of wanking?? I've no idea. But he's being a disrespectful arse

Iloveme30 · 26/08/2020 08:47

@Kittykat93

He randomly looks at it infront of you? Don't people use it purely for the purpose of wanking?? I've no idea. But he's being a disrespectful arse
He never wanks to it strangely enough he just watches we used to watch a bit together but not anymore I've no interest anyway his interests are very one sided I've kinda checked out
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