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It's over

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DaffodilsAndDandelions · 25/08/2020 16:14

The getting away bag is packed.
I have nowhere to get away too as there is a massive shortage of rental properties.
How do I tell my "D"P that our 5 year relationship is over? We have a 20mo son and one on the way. He had gone to the pub for the 5th day in a row except this time he got the bus at 2:30. Last bus back arrives home at 6:15. He hasn't asked for a lift. Didn't even tell me he was going, just said I'm popping out. Grr

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IAmMeThisIsI · 25/08/2020 16:48

Aw OP I'm so sorry. Sounds horrible for you. But he won't change so you're doing the right thing. You're going to have to have somewhere to flee to though? A friend? Family? A hotel if affordable? Anywhere. Hand hold for you here.

DaffodilsAndDandelions · 25/08/2020 19:43

So he's too drunk for the conversation tonight. Very tipsy but argumentative so not going to risk it. Pestering me for sex which is obviously a no go (that's how I ended up pregnant by giving in when I didn't really want to!)
I have a few b&b in mind I can ring or stay with my friend who has The Bag at least the first night. Really hope The Bag is not necessary but thought it best to be prepared.

Just need to find the words tomorrow morning or I will have to wait until next Sunday as we have his older son Wednesday-Saturday

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