You all know when you get a gut feeling that something isn’t right with your OH?
My DH and me have been married for 16 yrs and at the start we made love very often - maybe made love is wrong, we had sex very often because it never ever felt like we had made love! Now it’s less but he always wants oral sex and to do it doggy style which is okay now and then but not all the time! He plays at trying to please me. There isn’t much foreplay. He used to ask me what I liked and then never do it.
At the end of it all I get,”Love ya,” like he feels that’s what you should do.
It’s confusing me.
He flirts with women and very occasionally says inappropriate things, not of a sexual nature though. They all think he’s charming of course and look at me like they’re sorry for me.
So why do I keep thinking he might be gay?