Firstly I'm going to admit that sexually I'm inexperienced. I was with my husband from the age of 18 and had one short sexual relationship before him.Sex with my husband was great, we both orgasmed with penetrative sex, no problems apart from the occasional mismatch in libido due to pregnancy, babies, stress etc but this didn't cause any massive issues - we understood why and just worked through it.
Im 42, been single for 6 years but have now met a lovely man who is 53. We've been having sex for about a month and in that time he has only manage to orgasm inside me twice. It seems that as soon as he inside he just loses his erection. Everything is fine, working well with foreplay but as soon as we try penetrative sex he just loses his erection. He brushes it off, he's drank too much or he's too excited but I think he's a little embarrassed so I don't want to make a big deal out of it but I miss good sex.
I'm now getting a bit neurotic about it, is it me, am I too big for him etc etc.
Has anyone had to deal with this? Got any suggestions that helped them?