Am I being over sensitive here? My husband does this all the time and I don’t get it!
For example tonight, I went to the shop and bought a sharer tub of ice cream for us to eat watching the tv, but I also bought a bottle of coke for me. I didn’t buy him a drink as I had bought him one earlier in the day and noticed it was still in the fridge. So we sat down to eat the ice cream and he said “you’re perfect buying us ice cream to share” followed by “you even got me a bottle of coke” obviously this was a dig because I had not brought him a drink and he was trying to make me feel guilty about it!
The other day I went to a bakery and bought my boss a birthday cake and so as to not leave my husband and kids out I let them each choose a cake each to have whilst I was celebrating my bosses birthday at work (I work in a bar)
The next day he commented on how it was nice of me to buy her a cake followed by “but you didn’t bring me a piece back did you” I was like that’s why I bought you all a cake each so you weren’t missing out!
I mean recently I noticed he actually does this a lot!
Has anyone else experienced it?