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Partner hanging out with much younger woman

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Frustratedneighbour · 22/08/2020 21:35

Partner of a year is in a running group. He is now running on separate days with a 20 year old woman - as she lives closer to him and he doesn’t have to travel. He insists they are friends. I’ve told him I wasn’t happy but didn’t tell him what to do - I assume it was implicit. I thought, given how seriously I told him I wasn’t happy and it wasn’t appropriate, he wouldn’t run with her again. In actual fact, he is indeed planning another run with her. He said he invited the other group members but nobody wanted to join. We are in our 30s. He insists he loves me, doesn’t fancy her etc. To me, it just isn’t enough. I’m absolutely fine with his many other female friends.

AIBU to want to dump him over this?

OP posts:
WonderHike · 23/08/2020 09:17

Saltyauntiepoop

It would really be funny if you were to start running with them.

Even better if you surprise him last minute so he doesnt have time to get out of it. See the dynamics, how uncomfortable they seem to see you there too.

Yes, definitely this.

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