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Fiance watching "school girl" porn

32 replies

Twinkles10 · 21/08/2020 23:51

I was in the car yesterday with my Fiance and clicked on media to play music from my phone as we were driving on a rural road and kept losing the radio.

On the screen read a video (clearly the last video played on his phone as it was his linked via bluetooth) "teen school girl (x y z)".

I dont know why but I'm freaking out over this. I dont know if this is a normal fetish or if I should be worried with the teen? Its been niggling since, am I being niave?

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Ginorwine30 · 22/08/2020 15:17

I wouldn’t be too concerned, it’s not an unusual fantasy and there are thousands of videos like this, watched by millions of men. It’s grim but I wouldn’t worry about it, porn is just a means to an end. If he has an addiction to it and it affects your sex life that’s different. Also as others have said, a video you masturbate to is not necessarily something you want to do in real life.

Wondersense · 22/08/2020 15:18

Unfortunately, the most common and popular porn category is 'teen' and so they title those videos with 'teen' in order to titillate the fans of this yuck genre.

Many men are fascinated by the mid - late teen girl. It's depressing and it's not just the fact that they're teens. I've heard that many men on dating websites think nothing of, or are deluded enough to approach women who are at least 20 years younger than them. It's part of a submissive fantasy that feeds in their egos.

DullDullWeather · 22/08/2020 15:23

Dirty Git

bakedoff · 22/08/2020 16:11

Meh. It wouldn’t bother me. Good luck finding a bloke without some kind of fantasy. Just because he gets off to teen porn it doesn’t mean he’d do that in real life! There’s a huge difference. It’s just fantasy. I think you’re over reacting a bit

Twinkles10 · 22/08/2020 17:45

I have spoken with him and he has said he didn't search for the video, it was suggested, he claims he didn't even look at the title and the 'uniform' didn't remotely resemble a school uniform.

I expressed my concerns, and he has promised that I have nothing to worry about and that he doesn't find "teens" attractive, nor does he have a thing for school uniforms.

Not really sure what to think. I know he watches porn, I have never had an issue until I saw the title of that video.

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Twinkles10 · 22/08/2020 17:48

I should have added, thank you for all your responses. Not really something I want to talk to someone in R/L about!

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lovelymm · 22/08/2020 18:07

The naughty schoolgirl thing has been around since At Trinian's. The 70s & 80s were full of it. I remember various page 3 girls, Benny Hill and even Pans People dressed like that and though it was awful then. But those women were usually busty and clearly not teens. The trend for girls that look really young now is even worse.

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