WTF?!

[blagaaw99]

I got worried bout cat being shut outside in heat and burning hot patio being between it and house.

Asked kids had they seen cat.

Asked OH where camping blanket was to put on patio.

OH gets angry and shouts at me that I always involve whole family in everything and demands apology...Also I need to apologise for having edge in my voice. WTF

Anyone else get this? I end up getting angry as is all so bizarre.

Back history: cat doesn't cope well in heat, vets have told us to keep it inside

Were you accusing your family of not caring for the cat properly? That seems to be the implication. No wonder he got angry. Are you sure you didn't use a moany voice?

I hope the poor cat is okay.

Are you annoying them all the time though?

You asked him where the blanket is, and asked your kids if they saw the cat?

That's hardly annoying them.. I'd be having serious words with your partner and asking if he's always such a hot head when asked a simple question?

Sounds like a dick.

Depends how you said it to them I'd say. Did you sound exasperated or cross that they hadn't already thought of it ?

I think I sounded worried/stressed.