CHEATING

[ash677x]

So I met this guy when he was with his ex. We slept together while they were together. He broke up with her and got with me. And I've just found out he's cheated on ME with HER. Should I be mad???? And why is he so interested in me cheating and what I am supposedly up to when he's the one cheating?

Block and move on. This person doesn't deserve you.

How they found you is how they will leave you

Cheaters believe that if they are at it, then everyone else must be. It's how they justify it to themselves. So, whatever your answer when he asks, it will never satisfy him. Cheaters are more jealous than most IMHO.

Were they really finished or is that what he told you to make you happy??
You can't exactly be mad if he cheated on his ex with you..!

Should you be mad?
Should his then girlfriend have been mad when you first appeared?
Sounds to me like you all deserve each other!

Karma. You are all as bad as each other.

@Chocolate123

Karma. You are all as bad as each other.

This.

Of course I am mad. He's told me that he loves me and wants to be with me and constantly questioning what I am doing when I've been 10% loyal. Why wouldn't I be mad

10% loyal 🤣

@ash677x

Of course I am mad. He's told me that he loves me and wants to be with me and constantly questioning what I am doing when I've been 10% loyal. Why wouldn't I be mad

Because you were quite happy to sleep with him when you knew he was in a relationship with her? Now the shoe's on the other foot. Karma indeed.

The same happened to me. I would get rid of the bloke if I were you. He doesn't respect you. Things with my ex were complicated- eventually we've become best friends, but he went through a phase where he was very dodgy about sex in every way. He eventually realized how he'd been was wrong, but by then it was over and I'd stopped being attracted to him. We did get back together for a while, years later, then split up again, because I wasn't happy with the sex.

You could find a decent guy who isn't sexually entitled or still into his ex or whatever. You do deserve better.

Hahahahaha

Serves you right.

Well done OP. Glad you are 10% loyal.

What goes around comes around. Your going to have to suck this one up and learn from it. This has to be an issue for cheat couples that come together like this. How can you build integrity & trust in to a relationship that starts from a dishonest foundation. Both of you are risky people to become involved with.

@MikeUniformMike That amused me too, but we shouldn't rub it in.

@ash677x Read lots of Mumsnet Relationships board. I had a blind spot when it came to the ethics of getting involved with married men, I'm not quite sure why.

But recently I read a lot of this board and I can see it now. We don't have to shag married men, and we shouldn't. We should see them as completely off limits. My friend calls it the 'girl code,' or you could call it 'the sisterhood' - we shouldn't do that to other women. Plus, most likely these men are users or other arseholes who will break your heart.

If a bloke is no longer into his marriage or relationship, or is interested in someone who's not his wife/girlfriend, he should split with them before he does anything. Otherwise he's a wanker.

Nah 😂 3/10

Karma... the way they come is the way they go

Your one of them ...
why would you sleep with someone else's man ?
What about the pain you caused her ? He's not yours now cause he wasn't yours to begin with . Sorry now but ..
KARMA INDEED !

Yes, it's always such a shock when a cheater cheats again.

Karma.

😂

You really shouldn't be surprised. A cheater is always going to cheat.

@tobedtoMNandfart

10% loyal 🤣

PMSL

@MikeUniformMike

Well done OP. Glad you are 10% loyal.

Stoppit, I have weed my pants now

So you were REALLY pleased he's a cheat, and now you're REALLY annoyed that he's a cheat. He's the same person you met.