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Taking the p#ss?

31 replies

RLEOM · 06/08/2020 16:44

So I've just done a 40 minute journey to drop my 2 year old DD to her dad's. I'd stupidly done a workout before, drank lots of liquids, and consequently was busting for a wee when I turned up. And when I say busting, I mean on the verge of passing out because of the... what would you call it? Agony? My ex knows that my bladder isn't as great and always let me into his nan's if I ever dropped DD there and was busting, but I've never asked when dropping her to his flat, so very unusual for me to ask.

Ex could see I was busting (I didn't even say goodbye to my daughter) and that I felt ill because of it. I asked if I could use his toilet and he refused. I somewhat begged and he still refused. I left on feeling shaky and on the verge of tears. Had a semi-accident in the car before finding a toilet. I ended up crying with embarrassment.

I'm livid and hurt by him denying a basic human need. Do I say anything when he drops her off later? Am I right to be upset?

OP posts:
CorianderLord · 07/08/2020 11:00

I'd have pissed in his garden

OldEvilOwl · 07/08/2020 16:50

Also would have pissed in his garden

Iooselipssinkships · 07/08/2020 19:37

Should've done it there and then in front of him on his doorstep, while aiming for his feet.

fourquenelles · 07/08/2020 19:41

@Iooselipssinkships

Should've done it there and then in front of him on his doorstep, while aiming for his feet.
And staring directly into his eyes. What a cast iron cunt.
LynnThese4reSEXPEOPLE · 07/08/2020 20:19

You can get She-Wees that go straight into a bottle of crystals that turn into gel. His behaviour was attrocious (?sp.) but useful for emergencies and covid loo closures.

willowmelangell · 07/08/2020 22:14

Text him you can't do the 40 minute journey anymore and dc will be available at x time on y day for him to pick up. Remind him to have a child seat.
I am glad he is an ex. He is an arse.

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