My DH is always working and tired/stressed. I can't speak to him without him looking irritated because I'm interrupting him working (now from home since Covid). He barely pays me any attention, I get zero emotional support and I feel very alone. He helps with the kids in the evening but that's it in the week. I've told him how I feel numerous times but he just says I knew what he was like when I married him and his job isn't going to change. I've threatened to leave so many times but don't because of the kids and also when it's good it's good and when it's bad it's pretty rubbish. He's never been good at offering emotional support and says he finds it hard. I know the grass isn't always greener but sometimes he pushes me to want to find someone else as he makes little effort with me.