Husband had a big secret

[Clarabella1431]

I have been married for over 15 year and have two children.

For a few years I have felt disconnected from my husband and couldn't understand why I was feeling this way.

To cut a long story short, a year ago I found out he had a credit card with £8k on it. I was so upset but it just got worse. I then found out that he was using cocaine in secret. Absolutely devastated me.

Anyway, I decided to stay with my husband and on the whole it has been fine but when we talk about money or he gives an option on anything I get frustrated and think why should I listen when you did what you did.

I can't give up on my family. We fought to have our children but I need tips on how to get past what he did x x

You've posted on the wrong board - report your own post to MNHQ and ask them to move it to Relationships or somewhere else more appropriate.

Hope you get the helpful advice you need.

Sorry. How do I delete the post?

Ask Mumsnet to move you to “wwyd” what would you do. I think you can report your own post to do this.

WWYD doesn't exist now. Ask for it to be moved to Relationships.