really embarrasing problem....personal question, sorry!!!!

[reallyshy]

Hi. I wanted to ask you about your sex lives. Nothing very intimate.......but I have a problem with my dh and I'm not sure what to do about it.

The problem is that he can only do 'woo hoo!' once....and that's it!!! He used to do it several times a few years back, but now we can't do four play as he couldn't do 'woo hoo!' too!!!!

Do men get to a certain age and their 'package' doesn't work very well.

perfectly normal i think

Just the once in our house I'm afraid ... and I'm lucky to get that!

that's a disapointment!!!!

Think it's down to age, family/work commitments etc. etc. We do make sure we cuddle a lot and that's nice.

just wanted to ask coz I was thinking something could be wrong. At least I know this is all perfectly normal.

Depends on age I reckon. How old is he? Does he have a busy work life?
How long have you been together?
My dh is a "once a night" (which ever night that might be) guy. It used to be different when we first met. I reckon we get into a familiarity with our partners and thats when the sparkle goes.
Definitely one here.

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My DH is 10 and half years OLDER than me - and I'm creepin up that hill! Everyone say - AAAHHHhhhhh...
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Very occasionally a double but to be honest I think oh FGS get on with it!! (8 months pregnant and to be honest I feel like screaming at him never to touch me again at the moment!!)

Remember being 18 an doing it 9 time in an afternoon/evening with my lovely sports star boyfriend - now I would want to get up and have a cup of tea and watch the telly I think!!

9 times! bloody hell - once is enough for anyone - I'd hate to be with someone demanding more I think it could cause problems - well it would for him

i once had a boyfriend who kept a record of how often in a day/weekend - was certainly more than once. in fact, if the record looked a bit thin he would say 'hmmm...' and jump on me. now with dh i think we only once 'completed' more than once in a day, but there's plenty of hugs, kisses, snogs and fooling around. And no record. i know which i prefer tbh.

I am sorry but bunglie is a bit dim....what is a 'woo hoo'?

I do know that as men get older they loose their early morning erections, and I therefore assume that perhaps someof the 'ability' to perform must decrease, but if by 'woo Hoo' you mean an ejaculation, my dh could only ever do it once a night 'thankfully'

I don't have anythig like that now...don't need it, but if it is a real problem I have heard that you can get things on the nhs that can help, and I don't mean viagra. I have a friend whose husband puts something like a 'rubber band' at the top of his penis and this way he can sustain an errection for longer, but they went to their GP!

I have interpreted a 'woohoo' to be an orgasm. I could be wrong? ooops if I am. and who said anything about 9 times! Thats enough to make the milk curdle!! EEEK.

NINE TIMES! Noooooo! Never! Impossible I want to meet this man?

I am sorry is a woo Hoo an orgasm, if so I think he was lucky tohave more than one a night!

We were young (both 18) and he played a very physical sport for his country and was lovely - well hung - very handsome and a really nice guy and I fucked up big time in letting him get away!!

Didn't you guys used to stay in bed all day and do it again and again when you first discovered it?? God we did -I may have got better A level results if I had done more work and less shagging!!

Yes. As men reach middle age or older, their genitals become a little less sensitive and so require longer stimulation..masturbation, oral, whatever is comfortable. Also, sperm production decreases, although the sperm itself can still be very fertile. Then there are secondary factors, such as diet, does he smoke/drink, take regular exercise and, of great importance, is how a partner responds. Sexual fantasy is the best aphrodisiac going...you should see what me and my dh role play at times!

No, he doesn't smoke or drink

But, he is not into porn or role-playing, sex toys or anything. I have a higher sex drive...I've always known that, but since having kids, he has complained that I'm not too interested, but I don't see the point when he is going to last no time at all.

Spill it!

Spill it themoneyshot!

Ooooooooooooh, listen to you all!!!! Okay, but be warned, a moderator could leap in at anytime..especially when i get to the handcuffs and basque bit!!!

Seriously reallyshy, what's needed is a good heart to heart. Have you read a book called A Woman's Experience of Sex? No, it's not porno. It's packed with really great advice on how to approach a disinterested partner and, for talking things through without either person feeling pressurised or "at fault", for want of a better term.

My dp is in his 40's and has much more stamina than I (I'm ten years younger). BUT if her ever couldn't perform (I' don't think that would happen!) he could satisy me in other ways other than penetration, such as orally or by using his hands or a love toy. He is truly an inventive lover and I have at least one orgasm everytime, without fail (unless I don't want to). Even if he cums first, he always satisfies me afterwards! Sadly my drive has slipped below his over the last while, so it is he that is often left wanting! I am very luck to have him!

was actually reading the joy of sex this morning. My mum gave it to me years ago, and I found it in an old box.

It does say that him coming too quick is a problem of not having sex often enough. It also gives ideas on how to get a man to last 5 mins.

Spoke to dh about this and he is happy to try it.....he was shocked that the book reckons you should be doing about 10-20 positions per session! Bit energetic for me!!!!

I reckon this mod could probably equal your stories moneyhot, so no slapping on wrist from here!

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