Hi, I thought I'd ask everyone opinions. I met this guy at work, he let me know he had a baby on the way but made it clear he wasn't with the babies mum. We got close, starting dating and spending time together.
She lives about 200 miles away from us, so he went to stay with her when rumours of lockdown were going about, as their baby was due at the end of March. This was fine and me and him spoke all the time, he was excited for the babies arrival. The baby arrived and he came back here, he does visit weekly and stays a few days to help out the baby, I was a bit put out at first but obviously baby comes first and he showed me messages where she found out about us, and he made it clear he didn't want to be with her.
It's been a good couple of months, we were together last night and I saw a message come up on his phone from her, I looked at their conversation and it went on for ages, he brought her expensive presents for her birthday. Romantic items like perfume and flowers, he started questioning her about men and to me he seemed jealous. I found out they sleep in the same bed, and they literally talk all day, he initiates conversations. I want to confront him but how do I approach this without saying they can't talk at all?