So served papers jan 2020 he is refused to sign even gave them to our kids to read !!
He is using the kids to hold me here I’m at my wits end they fight and argue constantly
He is disabled from a stroke 5 years ago about 18 moths in l found messages to a old girl friend he was telling her he loved her come and share my shower etc ( she is married)
Also found his profile to a swingers site and porn sites and also messages to other women
I have been told it is coercive behaviour etc but I cannot get any help he has told everybody that I’m having a bad change !!