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So grumpy

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Rosebel · 28/06/2020 19:41

We have a lovely 10 day old baby but my husband has been so grumpy. Not towards our baby but to me and our teenage girls. Like tonight he caught his leg in the Moses basket stand and threw it. I mean it's like he's 15 but it's my fault because I got the stand out (because I'm finding it hard to bend)
I know he's tired but think he forgets I am too. He's been sharing the night feeds but I think I'm going to stop as I can't stand him being so moody.
I'm not sure our marriage is going to last and it makes me sad but he won't talk about it.
Just wondered how your husband's were after the birth? Did they get over being so grumpy? Am I not being understanding? Tbf I do snap back so I'm not r exactly innocent but I'm scared we've got our beautiful boy at the cost of our marriage. I'm sure he wasn't like this with our other two.

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NoMoreDickheads · 28/06/2020 19:44

Like tonight he caught his leg in the Moses basket stand and threw it.

This is beyond grumpy. It's aggressive/intimidating.

I think this soon after the birth he should be being kind to you and the baby.

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