Received pic from ex

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Bumped into a guy I used to see casually years ago. We have been texting just hello how are you what’s new etc. It got a bit hot and heavy so I put the brakes on (he’s married). A few days ago he sent me a pic of his dick (erect) under his jeans. I was shocked. I didn’t respond but feel like telling his wife. Obviously I won’t as that’s for her to work out and I’m sure she will but omg what is with men?

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Send it to his wife. She deserves to know

It got hot and heavy, despite knowing he was married . Although you put the breaks on, if you'd blocked him then, you would of saved yourself the dick pick. At least you know he's that kind of guy - one to stay casual with and never marry in a million years. Shame for his wife or anyone who ever tried a relationship with him

Yes, he was wrong to try to escalate, but it sounds like you were both flirting?

Was he married when you used to see him casually years ago?

No he was single - 💯 when we were seeing each other. I admit to some flirting but I stopped it after a few texts. Was just after a comment about great sex we used to have (him, not me) and I said yeah it was etc. Then I put a stop to it.

Do you know his wife?

"omg what is with men?"
How many men has this happened with? Or are you extrapolating from one person?

I didn’t respond but feel like telling his wife. Obviously I won’t as that’s for her to work out and I’m sure she will

I think she has a right to know, and there's no reason why she will inevitably find out what he's like. Even if she does find out, it mightn't be for years. She could waste years of her life on a disrespectful cheater and you can stop it. xxx

Yuck! Even if both of you were single... why on Earth would anyone want to receive that? Sorry that is just not sexy at all. His poor wife.

Please tell his wife. I would want to know if this was my husband

How many men has this happened with? Or are you extrapolating from one person?

You can’t seriously be pretending that men sending unsolicited dick pics is not a thing? 🙄 Tell you what "John", set yourself up a female online dating profile and see what your inbox looks like 👍

Men are fucking vile aren't they

As are the oh-so-innocent women who flirt with them knowing they are married, eh OP?

Ummm

"It got hot and heavy, despite knowing he was married"

Oh dear.

I always want to know what reaction they’re after because I bet they almost never get it. I’ve never heard of a woman becoming overcome with lust after receiving such a thing! 😂

That to me sounds like you fancied a confidence boost and was happy for him to flatter you with the comments and flirting, regardless of him being married. If I was his wife, I’d kick him to the kerb but also think you were a shitty person too. Plenty of single men to sex!

Do any women ever get turned in by these pictures? , this happened to a friend of mine recently ,(except he wasn't married, well he was but separated) . She didn't contact him again.

She showed me a picture it was just like.... Honestly? You just send this to someone you're chatting to? With no warning? They must get a high percentage of rejections ...

You aren't in the wrong so I bloody would send it to her!

I would of been very happy to have evidence instead of thinking I was going crazy and staying longer than I should of

Yes you are in the wrong.

Fuck sake, you knew he was married yet still sent flirty texts.

Tell his wife but only if you’re going to be honest about your part.

Honestly the amount of women that suspect their husbands but never find proof, she deserves to know.

This is actually really common on dating sites. I bet he is on them too.

My friend says they go from ‘hi how are you?’ to dick pics pretty fast!

The best response is to send a photo back of a better looking dick. Proper takes the wind out of their sails! 😂