Is it normal for men to think about sex all the time? dh beating himself up about it.

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is it?

Yes - according to my dp

oh goody...100% are in agreement!

Mine doesn't. Depends on the age. Anyway, stop bloody boasting!

Yes I think so, especially if you make him wait for weeks . Im an evil cow..hehe

Dp can turn anything I say into dirty words. The filthy so and so!!

Mine does but only because he doesn't get any!

yes it is, bf does. Ex dh didn't though but he was very unusual in that department.
I think about it a lot too as bf is in US but over here for 2 months in October

YES!!!!!!!

BLOODY MEN

we dont have it as often he likes - he could have min once a day, but neither infrequentky.

The issue really is that he is beating himself up about it.

mine doesn't EVER (sob)

When I first read the title I thought he was beating something else

um...i think because he is religous and i presume he thinks it means he is 'bad'.

I keep trying to reassure him that im sure most men do. Ive also told him to be pragmatic and if he is anyway, at least not be depressive as well!

feel a bit guilty, that if only i had more interest to do it more...

totally normal.

fgs tell the poor guy just to have a wank and stop torturing himself

No not all the time. They have breaks to savour their own farts .

Explains a lot about the state of the world.

well...ejaculating (on his own!) would be a bad thing in so far as our religion is concerned.

lol emsmum!

right, will show him this thread and hope it reassures him. thanks everyone!

Course it is!

Mine does, and providing he only actually does it with me then he can think about what/who he likes the rest of the time - I'm not big-headed enough to believe he never notices other women, and I don't believe that would be healthy anyway.

Mine doesn't think about it at all. Ever.

And he is also a normal human being.

Mine does - he doesn't tell me this but he's always admiring other women etc .
I know that he likes brunettes with a bit of padding (so skinny women don't do it for him).
I am comforted by the fact that he does at least tell me who he fancies quite openly.

dh does too (thankfully not about sex with anyone other than me, it seems)

according to him it's not within his control and due to high testosterone levels

(So reading this thread I have come to a conclusion. We joke that men can't multitask but they can. All the time they are doing something they are thinking about sex - so they are working and thinking about sex, driving and thinking about sex, eating and thinking about sex )