My husband really irritates me

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My husband and I have had a 'good' Lockdown. Our children have left home, so it's just the two of us, but we get along fine.
However, we socialised last week (distancing) with friends last week and I've really gone off him.
Yes, I know that sounds horribly immature.
In company, he's boring and not good at joining in without coming back to his pet subjects. I know I'm not perfect but I can't get over how well we get on when it's just the two of us, and how irritating I find him in company.
I'm only on here (name changed) because I'm shaken by how strongly I feel this.

Oh dear op.

I am finding my dh hard work at the moment as well. He just doesnt engage his brain. Like offers to cook but doesn't put veg with it or goes to the shop and spends money buying food we already have etc
And I just think, why is being a sensible grown up just my job??

Oh, I didn't think he says...