Advice Please :(

[Mrosetta]

I really need your advice on some things while their fresh in my head , I don’t know whether I’m being hormonal as I’m 6 months pregnant .
My partner said he won’t go down on me because I’m pregnant , through pregnancy I’ve developed like a little skin tag thing on my groin and said to him I’ve had doctors appt today and they are arranging to get it removed , and he said word for word “ good it’s horrible “ ...

He said there’s nothing wrong with the above and I’m too sensitive ?

There’s been a number of times he’s said similar stuff to , also when he talks to me he talks down to me and points , points all the time which I really don’t like .

No you’re not BU at all. He’s being both nasty and childish all at the same time. A dick is nothing more than a giant skin tag, after all.

He’s a prat. And you’re having a baby with him. So sorry

Never distrust your own feelings! it makes you feel a certain way a d that is a fact, dont let him ever doubt yourself or your own emotions. That is horrendous in itself imo but try talking to him and getting him to see things from your point of view. What is he insecure about? how would he feel if someone enforced that insecurity then said he was being sensitive?

There’s been a number of times he’s said similar stuff to , also when he talks to me he talks down to me and points , points all the time which I really don’t like

This may get worse. Controlling abusers will often ramp up the control and abuse during pregnancy and after childbirth - the times you are really vulnerable. He doesn't sound very nice. He should be building you up during this time, not knocking your confidence.

The finger pointing is vile, and is him showing you who's in charge.

He’s being a prick to you, my OH did feel uncomfortable about having sex etc when I was pregnant... he simply said he didn’t want to hurt the baby so we’d have to be extra careful. I have a skin tag by my vagina and it’s definitely not horrible lol, my OH hasn’t even mentioned it.

He’s being nasty and very immature. Tell him you don’t want him to go down on you anyway and invest in some vibrators (they’re better anyway, trust me). Good luck with the pregnancy I hope it’s as stress free As possible! 💐

Thank you . I keep trying thinking things will get better . He talks to me like a child , this morning he told me to hurry up with what I was saying .

I then misheard something he said and he lifted up my hair and said “unblock your ears and Listen” I wanted to punch him!

He is emotionally/psychologically abusive. I don't think it'll get better.

@Mrosetta he’s a nasty piece of work. This will get worse, not better.

I know it’s difficult to believe but these are major red flags