Friend found husband’s texts to OW

[Smillar2020]

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3930611-Husband-sending-beyond-flirty-texts-to-ex

This is the thread I started last week. More developments over the last week on this. Grateful for all of your input.

Friend’s H still texting OW. Borderline explicit messages about sex and how jealous he is of OW being single. He told OW his sex life is non existent and he wants to do all sorts to OW. She has responded very flirtatious but Still said she wouldn’t sleep with a married man. She also said married men don’t leave their wives. He said well you never know. OW didn’t respond, no further texts for a couple of days.

This has gone too far now no? I’m trying to get friend to print everything off to confront him.

I bet she's not even interested, he's a safe flirt for her because she knows he's married.

If she was all for it she would be encouraging him to meet up, not just sending sexually explicit/reminiscing messages.

I'd be sorely tempted to purchase a "ready to go mobile" and text the two of them, stating who you are and after seeing their texts to each other, tell the OW she can have him, stating she's in for a rude awakening re. All the "fabulous sex" she planning to have her husband, he really isn't all that. That'll throw the cats among the pigeons!

your friend is a MUG

Who cares if the husband has feelings for this woman or just wants sex or just wants his ego massaged that people other than his wife still want to have sex with him.

Regardless of what his motivations are he needs kicked out!

She said she swears he’s never given any indication of cheating.

That's bullshit tho. He's trying to shag this ow now, the only reason he's not is because she's said no. He's being so disrespectful to his wife! I'd say an emotional affair but there's nothing emotional here, he's thinking with his dick

She said she swears he’s never given any indication of cheating.

that's why it's called cheating.. they hide the evidence