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Does anyone have a Fab swingers couples account on here

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TwoOpenOneClosed · 11/06/2020 21:13

I was just wondering if it was possible to message someone without the other person knowing? Or are all messages seen by the other person?

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Oopsiedaisyy · 11/06/2020 21:20

Yes I have had one. The message could be sent and then deleted I suppose, but generally it will go out of your one inbox. And any replies received.

Oopsiedaisyy · 11/06/2020 21:21

With some couple accounts only thean tends to read or reply btw

NoMoreDickheads · 11/06/2020 21:24

If the account only has one login/email address and both members of the couple have the details, there's no way they can't have equal access to it.

So, your partner might send a msg, as after all if either of you were logged in you could. You might not be able to see that if they delete it or something. But if you can view the email the messages come through to/notifications, you will be able to see any replies, unless he's hovering over the account at all times.

Of course, if it's set up using only his personal email which you don't have access to (he manages most of the communication on Fab) he will be able to msg whoever on there.

But if someone wanted to do entirely their own thing, they would make their own account. If they wanted to arrange something they wanted their partner to be involved with, without their partner knowing, that would seem quite disturbing!

What do you think's going on?

Oopsiedaisyy · 11/06/2020 21:26

If they wanted to arrange something they wanted their partner to be involved with, without their partner knowing, that would seem quite disturbing!

Or hot, depending on how the couple liked to play

NoMoreDickheads · 11/06/2020 21:26

I did have my own acct at one point. My sleazy ex wanted me to make us a couples' account.

NoMoreDickheads · 11/06/2020 21:27

Oops- I suppose so, that'd be a bit hardcore tho! And I assume as OP is posting that she isn't expecting that.

NoMoreDickheads · 11/06/2020 21:29

Oops- Unless that's what she's planning.

Hollypeters · 27/10/2023 17:54

Ive had an account as a couple and it is not possible to send a message without the other person knowing.. i opened an account as a single discreetly instead :) also at fabshag now too the attention seeker that i am 😚

mrhappinessukdonkey · 11/10/2024 19:01

Just recently I've been told by many people that it's a common thing for lots of husbands to encourage thier wife's and girlfriend to actually take part in full total penetration by other guys with the husbands watching and was wondering if this is actually a thing now

GentlemanJay · 12/10/2024 08:50

mrhappinessukdonkey · 11/10/2024 19:01

Just recently I've been told by many people that it's a common thing for lots of husbands to encourage thier wife's and girlfriend to actually take part in full total penetration by other guys with the husbands watching and was wondering if this is actually a thing now

I've met lots of couples for this.

Look at the sent message's, though they can be deleted too.

Mahidevran · 12/10/2024 10:49

Can’t you move this to the sex section so you swingers can have your chat in private?

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