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Paranoid?

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Softheart10 · 30/05/2020 10:51

Extreme working out.
Change in the text language he uses.
Unusual meet up with relatives.
Fresh hair cut that just had to be down this week rather than next week as he organised.
Cleaning his car for the meet up with relatives.

Is it coincidence and im being paranoid or is something going on?

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Dery · 30/05/2020 23:29

Sorry - posted too soon: I wanted to echo the above question.

OP - this is all very strange. Why aren’t his family interested in you and the DD? Why is he allowing you to be treated like that and why are you okay with it?

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Softheart10 · 31/05/2020 00:27

I think he believes they're doing nothing wrong. He has a dd to his ex, that dd gets invited up to see his family and extended family, they also keep in touch with the ex. I have no contact information for them and they dont have mine. They dont visit us, ever! Dp visits them without us.

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