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Anyone else??

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K1999 · 29/05/2020 17:22

Anyone else have a baby and just completely went off their partner?
He's a good guy, loves his son more than anything. Tries to help as much as possible but I've just completely gone off him. Like I don't want him around and I'm hoping it's just temporary..

OP posts:
lonelySam · 29/05/2020 17:25

How old is the baby?

K1999 · 29/05/2020 17:28

One month

OP posts:
BadgersAreReal · 29/05/2020 17:30

It's totally normal and can last quite a few months for some!

category12 · 29/05/2020 17:51

It's not unusual. possibly nature's way of stopping you getting pregnant again quickly.

Don't make any big decisions about your relationship until you're further down the road.

K1999 · 29/05/2020 18:03

Thank you guys.
Funny you mention that @category12 I have wondered that myself. He's also very ready for sexual things and I couldn't be less interested!

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category12 · 29/05/2020 18:26

Well, no wonder! Grin

Your body's gone through a lot, and you need time to adjust, and you're just getting to grips with having a newborn. When you're pregnant, you imagine you'll get your body back after the birth, but it's just as bad, if not worse with a newborn hanging off you.

He needs to cool his jets for a bit.

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