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Really messed up situation

2 replies

npavic · 28/05/2020 11:31

I have been married since 2018 and I have a harmonious relationship with my husband. I knew he had a failed marriage behind him but it never bothered me nor did it bother me. I discovered that I was pregnant with my first child in January 2018 and since then his ex has been mentally destroying me because she lied and talked nonsense about me. He tried to fix things but it was impossible. She attacks me because I am a foreign citizen and because she is obviously mad because he got married again. When I met him he was divorced for more than 3 years
This situation is stressful to me and it can affect my pregnancy and well-being

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AnneLovesGilbert · 28/05/2020 11:32

Click the dots under your post and ask MNHQ to move your thread to a better place, maybe relationships.

DPotter · 28/05/2020 11:47

keep any evidence.
Tell her to stop contacting you.
Get a solicitor to send a 'cease & desist' letter. Your home insurance may cover you for this.
if this doesn't work, report her to the police.
If she's spreading lies about you, that's slander or libel, which the police will not be able to act on as they are 'civil' matters, but if she's physically threatening you, contacting you -it could be harassment, which the police can help with.

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