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Husband of 1 year called me boring

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Dublirr · 21/05/2020 23:07

So I got married in March 2019 to someone I'd known for nearly 2 years.
I'm working as normal as I work in healthcare- he's not working atm as he works in events.
I went to work today and when I got home he asked if I wanted to go to a shop, I made a joke about not wanting to go but said I would. He knew I was on a heavy period too.
When we were nearly home he drove past our house to look at a house around the corner, he said ahhh look the flowers are so nice, I had period pain but I replied ah yes they are with not as much enthusiasm as him. Then he says in a rude tone, you are actually so boring you know that. Then quiet. Then we bump in into a single mother and little girl to which he is very enthusiastic about and he's always quite happy and even giggly when talking to them - I have had a bit of jealousy before about this but never confronted him as he calls the mum sister so don't want to cause awkwardness.

I try communicate issues like that but everyone it ends with him having an issue about me and my lack of trust or making something awkward.

Anyway... him saying what he did to Me today has hurt so much. We've watched some tv, spoken when spoken to and nothing more since. I don't want to let it drag, he knows from my reaction that I'm hurt. I've gone to bed now as I have work tomorrow. He did stroke my leg before I came up- but I didn't hug/kiss or say goodnight.

Feel so hurt, why did he marry me if I'm that boring

OP posts:
billy1966 · 22/05/2020 16:37

I don't think most women would ask a man coming the door from work to go shopping, if they had been off work for the day....even less likely if they knew he wasn't feeling great to boot.

He doesn't sound considerate of you OP.

Hope you feel better today. Flowers

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