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We're just friends but he's totally avoiding me!

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WonderWomanBra · 13/05/2020 01:00

Not going to go on too much...I'm just upset and confused!I've got a guy friend and we are only friends because I'm happily married and he's met my husband and family.At first we were not as close until few months ago my friend was going through a rough time and he opened up to me and became very comfortable with me because I was there for him,I thought we were close.(Hubby knew about this and was fine with it) However now it seems as though my friend is avoiding me completely.I have messaged him here and there to ask how he is feeling (health issues) but he never replies back or answers my calls.
I guess I just feel like maybe I was there when he needed me and now he could not give a shit! I have asked him if I've done something to upset him but no reply. He's just avoiding me! Hubby told me to ignore it but I feel used and confused to why my friend would do this.

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RantyAnty · 13/05/2020 23:27

Not sure what you got from this friendship as it sounds like the friendship was you listening to his troubles.
Return the gift and get something nice just for you.
Put your time into people that make an effort towards you, and not just using you for an emotional tampon.

WonderWomanBra · 14/05/2020 01:24

Thankyou lovely ladies...I'm going to save that money and treat myself to having my hair done once the salons up.X

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