Dp has been showing me some lovely snaps he has taken of our child in the swimming pool today, very cute snaps.
I saw his camera roll at the bottom and there were two pics of his dick. I didn’t say anything.
He then went on Facebook and uploaded a pic of our child and I saw the dick pic again with closer detail as his camera roll comes up as thumb nails which confirmed to me it was infact a dick pic. The angle was him standing in the kitchen, camera pointing down, penis out and a foot either side.
I felt sick to my stomach and I still do. I went upstairs and I text him to be discreet and said can you explain why you have 2 dick pics on your phone and who have you sent them to? He has denied everything. I asked to see the pics he’s deleted as it was just 2 pics of the floor, asked for deleted folder he said he’s emptied it. He’s making out I’m accusing him of stuff and he’s not done anything wrong. I know what it was and it was the tip of his bell end. Surprising I can recognise it as we haven’t had sex for over a year. Unsure if it’s a sex site (fab swingers is one he has used before and I caught him on) or sending it to someone we/he knows in real life.
He made a comment about his pubes being so overgrown who would want to see it? But my guess is that he would of zoomed in to cover these and make his ‘thing’ look bigger.
I want him out of my house. Its rented by me.
Am I being too harsh by packing his things and putting them in a suitcase outside his mums and being done with it? I’d never stop contact with our child and I will share the household items with him. I have also written a message to his mum in my notes telling her his stuff is there and the reason why I want him out.
Is it being too harsh or just firm? Either way I want him gone ASAP.