How to cope with envy/ jealousy?

[malificent7]

I have a close friend...not so close now but parents are dating. Our relationship has always been quite competetive due to the fact that we like similar things.
She has the job and lifestyle i would love...she is far more talented than me. I do admire her but i cannot stop feeling very envious...how can i stop this negative emotion?
It's almost like sibling rivalry where one sibling has the 'perfect' life etc.
I am jealous as she has succeeded to make a living out of something that i would love to make a living out of but am not talented enough at.

not so close now but parents are dating

What do you mean by this?

Are your parents and hers dating each other ?

dealing with jealousy usually requires working out what the underlying cause is which is creating the jealousy. Often it's insecurity or lack of self-esteem, both of which could apply in the case you outline. If you want to conquer the jealousy, it requires you confronting that head on. it's not easy, but you can do it.

Honestly I have never felt envious of anyone , ever! I have really really successful and beautiful friends. Can't you be pleased for them?

Our parents are dating. I am happy for her but sad for myself...hence jealous.