I have met someone on line a while ago. We have messaged back and forth and spoken on the phone. I'm
Giddy with excitement as is he but we will meet when lockdown is over , as far as we can predict at the moment but I'm scared.
I'm
Scared because although I am comfortable with myself and my body, the fact remains that it's big and wobbly. I'm
About two stone overweight and have a flabby belly and I'm
Worried that he won't find me attractive physically when it comes down to dtd. Also I haven't had sex in a year and my husbands affair did plenty of damage to that side of my confidence.
Please advise. I don't want to ruin the build up by being worried that he may reject me. Already there has been lots of lovely phone sex and message sexting and he is eager, but I've told him From the start that I won't be sending intimate photos etc as I am nervous about putting that stuff online and also I would like a little left to the imagination. Thoughts and advice from men also very welcome, thank you.