How to I become happy single, any inspiring stories or maybe I need a kick up the bum?! I just can't seem to get the motivation at the moment to do all the things like join clubs, live my life, do self improvement, as I'd really like a relationship. I feel more inspired all round if I have someone special. But after some depressing forays into online dating I feel like I need to give that up and get on with living my life and being happy single but how to I get to the place where I am genuinely feeling it?!