@lennyhenryslaugh he lived with his mother before you. You need to read the warning below ( written by a male blogger)
One of the worst things a woman can do is "help" a man get on his feet or elevate him when he has nothing of value to offer. What do I mean by that? Okay, example: If you meet a man who is 35-40 years old, no education, no skills, no trade, he's riding a bicycle because he doesn't own a automobile, working at a fast-food joint as a cook, and living with his healthy mom at the time you met him, he has nothing of value to offer a woman. Now, if you make the mistake that millions of women make when they allow their nurturing and motherly instincts to kick in, and try to "see the Kang in him" or take him in and help him get "his shit together", it will not end well.
Deep down, all men want to pull themselves up, even when it look as if they're not capable of doing it. If you interrupt that process and artificially prop him up, he's going to hate you for it. Once he gets on his feet, he will more than likely leave you for another woman. Why? Because the other woman is meeting the "got my shit together dude" and not the "down on my luck dude". So he will be in a place of power and admiration with the new woman, whereas he knows the woman that helped him get straight, knows exactly who he is and how much she helped turn a tramp into a champ. Since he knows this, resentment will settle in and he will find another woman that doesn't know this secret about him.
The psychology of men and women function very differently, and this must be understood and respected. For instance, many women think that if they go the extra mile and help Pooky get on his feet by finding him a better paying job, moving him out his mama crib into her house, and giving him the keys to the 750LI, that Pooky will be grateful and show her undying attention, love and appreciation. It never goes that way because many women think men think like them, and that's where they go very wrong. The opposite is going to happen, Pooky is going to hate you for doing too much for him and turning him into boy status, and he's going to bounce by sabotaging the relationship or sleeping with a woman so you can find out.
Deep down, all men know they must earn their own keep even the ones who weren't raised by a father. That is why when they have no skills, they turn to crime in order to feel like a man and be able to take care of themselves. Men know that the bare minimum is that they're able to feed, clothe, put a roof over their heads and take care of themselves, so when a woman steps over the line and relieves him of his most basic manly duty, the man resents her for it because it reinforces the demons who have been telling him in his mind that he is nothing, that he is small, that he needs a woman to take care of him. Dudes in that cycle have been fighting those demons most of their lives and it's their best kept secret.
Helping a man is not finding him a job, moving him into your home from his mamas house, giving him your car keys, and taking the place of his over protective mother. That is the worst thing you can do and it will backfire. A man must earn his keep and earn his woman by standing on his skills and what he knows. A man must come to a woman with something to offer that the woman doesn't have, even PimPs understand and know this science, and it is the science of reciprocity. If a man comes to you with nothing, you will get nothing in the end.
Also, when a woman has to do everything for a man, she will lose respect for him and begin to look at him like he is her son. This sets up a dysfunctional pedophile relationship of sorts, borderline incest. A woman must stay out of the way of men who are either in transition or still trying to find themselves. You meet them on a bike, leave them on their bike, don't take any interest in them unless you want your bank account drained, your dog shot, your best friend sleeping with him, and your heart broken. Because in reality, you're not dealing with a man, you're actually dealing with a boy-child when they're in that situation at home with mama and working a dead-end job.