Without going into too many details, I've had a really shit track record with men. On the whole the relationships that I have experienced over the past 20 years, both short and long, have been shit. I've had relationships with abusers and players and i can't be bothered with it anymore quite frankly.
So I have decided at the age of 40-something that I do not want a relationship at all but maybe would consider having the odd no strings attached one night stand arrangement type thing instead. (obviously when this current situation is all over)
Does anyone else have this sort of thing going on where they just don't commit to an long term emotional relationship, and are happy with perhaps some no strings set ups as an ongoing way of life, forever?