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Friend's ex messaging me

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Sapphiresunrise · 05/04/2020 11:14

Around 3 years ago a friend of mine dated a guy for about a year. They broke up and my friend has now been with someone else for 2 years who she lives in Australia with, so I haven't seen her since then sadly.

When they were dating we went out as a group a few times, I thought he was nice enough but our other friend couldn't stand him and thought he was a complete prick.

Anyway my friend cheated on him and the relationship was just incredibly rocky, as far as I know they haven't spoken in years, but luckily I think they were civil towards the end.

Anyway he messaged me one day just asking how I was getting on with everything that's happening. I replied and now we have been messaging lots. He seems to like me and I think i'm attracted to him too.

However I feel like it's really unfair to my friend and like a bad person. Obviously nothing has happened, we have just been speaking online, but i've realised I like him.
I think I need to just tell him that this cannot go any further as he dated my friend, what do others think ?

OP posts:
WickedlyPetite · 05/04/2020 15:46

our other friend couldn't stand him

Out of interest, why?

You've already dated one person she really liked and had sex with, two seems like it's forming a bit of a pattern.

Anyway, his timing is marvellous, beware of any man that tries to start up something while we're on lockdown. He's probably bored, feeling a bit isolated, "reaching out" to a few different women to see who takes the bait.

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