What to do

[Dee009]

Has anyone been in a relationship with someone who just doesnt care one bit about you?

Yes. But not for long.

@playthestation how did you know?

Maybe you could say what's worrying you. I find it very easy to gauge people's interest and have never tolerated less than I am giving.

Yes I'm in one. I guessed I always hoped when the time came he would be there for me if I needed him. All this going on with cv, work, kids etc and I need a little support back and he just doesnt give a crap bar about himself. Total eye opener but it hurts.
Why do you feel your partner doesnt care?

I think a lot of people are settled in relationships thay aren't right with people who don't care enough.

To not care "one bit" is different, that's not good. What's up OP?

If i start i wont stop tbh. But long story short i ended it tonight and as i sit here at the kitchen table with my ds crying into my dinner he is sitting in the sitting room singing, making phone calls and watching tv.

That is awful if that is how they make you feel. You must realise it has to end for your sake though.

Well done for ending it. Hope he is able to leave. Is it your house or do you rent.

I guarantee his cheeriness is all bravado. Whether he cares about you or not, I can guarantee his ego has been dented. You are well RID of him.