I have given up

[2manybloodypets]

Is anyone nice here on Mumsnet? I joined but can only see everyone telling people to F off - I'm afraid to post

Awwww...CheekyFucker, she is adorable!! I can see the Chihuahua in her ears. :) Crossbreeds are the best!!

I don't have any current pictures of my purr farm on this new laptop, but here's a pic of my house rabbits I rescued many years ago. Bunny butts! The brown one is Cinnabun and the gray one was Big Bunny.

@2manybloodypets - do you have pictures of your furbabies you can share? We all would love to see them!!!

Those bunny bums! 😍

OP I really hope you feel less alone now. Please keep talking here and tell us about your pets... or whatever else you want.

Here’s one of mine - Wilburforce the golden doodle.

@2manybloodypets, I have been in your shoes. Due to narcissistic abuse. I get the lows and the days where things are hard. I hope you talk to us, I have posted here many, many times, and honestly some of those users are life savers, it's good to come in here and just went. You are not alone.

@thetickingtime thank you and to all others who have posted with so much kindness. I think that my relationship is sort of abuse, nothing I can hundred percent out my finger on, but my spirit has been crushed by what seems to be controlling behaviour. My mind is quite jumbled, maybe it's not abuse more of a selfish husband who has always put his needs before me. I now feel trapped and scared.
Thank you all so much, I will try to put my thoughts in some kind of order and maybe create a new thread for some advice. You are all so lovely 💕

@2manybloodypets, how are you doing? 🌺

Here is a dpupdate op..
Much to dh's disgust she loves our bed!!

Hi everyone- lovely to see all of your pictures of your pets. @TheTickingTime thanks for the check in 💕 have a call with my therapist tomorrow to try and sort my head out - every thing seems v overwhelming right now (I’m sure it is for lots of people) trying to accept I have no control over things ATM but seriously lacking in any motivation to do anything. I do have a very sporty DS who has committed to be my running coach during this time of lock down (isolated in the country so no chance of passing on any virus) so I’m trying to exercise. Just wish I could get my head straight! Xxxxxx

Glad to hear you've got an appt with your therapist. I really struggle to exercise when I'm in the headspace but once I do it I feel so much better! Oh and here's a pic of my dog on our 1 hour of exercise today, she wanted in on me taking a pic of the daffodils.

3 fur baby cats!

Another dog who thinks the bed is her’s to share. Maybe I will do the hamsters and chickens tomorrow- thank you lovely people for being here xxxx

Ime chickens are very therapeutic op.
Hopefully you will be happy to share some pics...

Loving all those pet photos! Especially the bunny butts @dramalessllama ha ha

Awww, @2manybloodypets, your 3 kitties are adorable!! And I can't wait until I can have chickens as well. They can be very affectionate and loving which is surprising to many people. Same with turkeys!

And, of COURSE that your dog's bed! She only allows you to sleep there. How nice of her.

@helpamummaout - She has such a sweet face!!

I'm glad to hear you got an appt. with your therapist. You need support - in person and virtually. We've got the virtual part. (((hugs!)))

@Brahms3rdracket - Wilburforce is the perfect name for him!!

@2manybloodypets I use to live on a farm, years ago and it was hard but brilliant I am glad you got an appointment, hope you feel better. We are all here 😊

Do your chickens come in the house op? Once heard ds talking to himself. He was actually showing his chicken Keith his bedroom!!
*Keith was a girl - older ds thought they needed a 'man' around the place as we weren't allowed a cockeral!!
Many many happy times with our Ladies!!

Thank you @dramalessllama , the bunny butts made me smile ha x

Maybe I will do the hamsters and chickens tomorrow-

Ooh yes please!!!!

Windyatthebeach A chicken called Keith????!!

All ours (10) had names!!.

Hi all, I promised pics of the chickens (yes they come in the house!) and the hamsters
So here they are. Glad I spoke with therapist yesterday- helps to get thoughts in some sort of order - for a while at least! Trying to get some motivation to move forward.
I hope that everyone on here is safe and well 💕

And the hamsters

Your dpet family look amazing op!!
When we had chickens our dcats were afraid of them!! Ddog once got in their garden and ran right at them then swerved last minute!! It became a game as chickens cared not one bit and stood their ground!!
Dcats never got close but watched from a wall of a table!