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Ex ghosting me after saying he wants to try again?

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askadvice96 · 23/03/2020 13:33

My ex and I recently met up and both wanted to try again. He previously cheated on me and said that he knows those girls need to be out of his life for us to have a future and he agreed to do that with it not being any issue.

He left a photo of us on his Facebook since we broke up but yesterday deleted this. I asked him why he was deleting any trace of me from his social media when we’re supposedly trying again but he still had all the girls on his social media and hasn’t made any attempt to remove them from his life.. And now he has completely ghosted me; hasn’t read or replied to my messages but has been online.

Prior to this he has been saying how much he wants to try again, that he’s missed me so much and really wants us to have a future.

I’m so confused - why say all this and then delete the photo of us suddenly but not remove any of the girls he cheated with? Why now ghost me?

OP posts:
rosabug · 24/03/2020 07:35

Jerking
Your
Chain.

AgentJohnson · 24/03/2020 07:44

You are making this all about him, the minute he started playing silly buggers again was the moment for you to call time, instead its triggered hand wringing.

He’s an arsehole who enjoys screwing with your mind, only you can stop granting him access to continue to do so.

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