Not so best friend

[Lottieloo90]

If you knew that someone's supposedly best friend of a couple of decades had shagged her supposed best friends bloke way back when they were together and now likes to point out other peoples faults like she is the arch angel gabriel, well would you let her know that her halo isn't that polished or is that below the belt?

I’d ditch her.

Life’s too short.

Dump on move on.

Is it possible that, like a born again Christian or reformed smoker, that she feels more strongly about shitty behaviour now in light of her own past behaviour?

I only ask because once, in the dim and distant past (20+ years ago) I did something I shouldn't have done. Only once, but I felt so badly about it that, nowadays, I expect a lot better of myself and others around me.

It's not easy to treat others well and with respect. And its selfish to do otherwise.

She's not a friend.
She's done it once she'll do it again

Ditch her

It's not the OP's best friend. The OP knows the two best friends.
Would you tell the best friend who had been cheated it on or would you just tell the cheater OP?

Leave the past in the past. But don’t hang out with hypocrites

She’s pointing to your foibles behind your back, OP. Not exactly friend material.

If it's ur faults she's pointing out or annoying u that much is drop a hint to her or tell her straight wat u no but wouldn't say to the best friend coz it's past and would cause more problems with her and partner than it would with the angel lol