I'm scared

[Bluemascara4]

Hi,

I've posted before re STBEx but I'm still in the same house as he refuses to discuss divorce ( papers have been written but not served).

I reported him to the police for verbal abuse which was in front of 7 yr old son but H didn't know I'd reported him.

I'd given a statement and police looked through a series of abusive messages on my phone and recorded them.

SS got involved and assessed ds and the case was closed .

This was a while back . Today he found out I'd reported him ( I don't know how) and has gone mental but only via text.

He stated ' he works so hard and this is how I repay him and he has a black mark against him he can't defend'

I know this is insignificant with the problems and worries with Covid-19 but I just wanted to tell someone x

What are you scared of?

Why are you scared? Do you think he’ll hurt you?

You can still contact the police if you feel in any way unsafe.

Thank you for responding ( I appreciate everyone has bigger worries right now).

Scared of his reaction . I'm just getting the silent treatment of which I can deal with .

Terrified of having to self isolate!

Why haven't you divorced him OP? I don't remember your last thread.

No, come on, that's not a trivial worry at all. Don't put yourself down just cos you're used to him doing it.

Are you hoping to move out or waiting for him to? I was so relieved to get out of that stage when I was separating from my now XH. You're constantly on edge.

@CharlotteCollinsneeLucas yes I'm constantly on edge and nervous .
Our son was getting 'love bombed' by him while i was being very obviously ignored .

We sleep in separate rooms and ds has decided to sleep in with me as he's worried about my mum ( over 70 with cancer but currently well) so I can only hope H doesn't start wanting me to feel sorry for him .

@Bluemascara4 what an awful way for you to live.

Is there anywhere else you or he could bunker down? With a relative?

As long as it’s not a house full of people you should be ok?