We've been together for 2.5 years. Things have been quite rocky for a while, I feel like I always come second place to his friends, work etc. I have voiced my concerns and it makes no difference. I'm 37 and feel like I'm wasting my time sometimes. We don't have kids.
We've hardly seen each other lately, and two weeks ago he said he would take me out, and would i book a table. He never turned up, said he had forgotten his phone and had to go back and missed the train. He didn't bother to tell me this until 11 pm then he went out with his mates.
Anyhow, he went to work away 200 miles away, nearly 2 weeks ago. He said it was just for a week and hed be back for my birthday.
Well, my birthday was Saturday and he didn't come home. He called me on the phone for 5 minutes and said he would give me money to help pay a bill for my birthday. No card sent or anything. Said hed be home the next day and take me out for lunch. Luckily I made plans with my friends for my birthday so wasn't sat home alone.
He didn't turn up. Sent a text in the afternoon saying hed be back late. Then I found he had been telling others he would be back mid-week so seemed as though he was just lying to me.
So when he sent this text I got mad and just told him to stay there, expressed how I felt.
He just said he can only leave when the jobs finished, I already made plans, I'm being unreasonable. Then when I didn't respond he told me he won't contact me again.
I left it there. Do you think I am being unreasonable? I'm not materialistic or even bothered about my birthday really, I don't expect much. But I feel like he just doesn't care, for all he says he loves me.