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Angry OLD guy

6 replies

Ellenthegenerous · 08/03/2020 22:30

I have posted this on a couple of threads but haven't had any replies yet.

I have been chatting to a guy on a well known OLD site today. He was very evasive and blowing hot and cold. My spidey senses were tingling and so I asked him if he was definitely single. He got really defensive saying bad bad bad question, you're so insecure blah blah blah and then got aggressive so I've blocked him. Surely only someone who had something to hide would behave like that - do you agree?

OP posts:
Mermaidwaves · 08/03/2020 22:34

Bad sign OP. When they get defensive you know they've got something to hide. It's not a bad question at all to establish he's single. You did the right thing.

Brainengaged1 · 08/03/2020 22:35

I think you know the answer already to that one . Why bother with the drama so soon ?

Claire926 · 08/03/2020 22:35

That is not a good way to start a relationship by having a row with each other. Blowing hot and cold is a red flag. Gaslighting you too because you trusted your own judgment. He has a screw loose. Find someone else, there are 7 billion people in this world.

Original poster
Ellenthegenerous · 08/03/2020 22:37

Thanks all. It has really pissed me off. And I knew I was being gaslighted. Twit!

OP posts:
onemorerose · 08/03/2020 22:39

Clearly wasn’t single then!

dontgobaconmyheart · 09/03/2020 01:48

Bullet dodged OP! What a sad prick he sounds.

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