He just seems so different lately....

[QueenofmyPrinces]

What do you do when things just feel different?

We have the usual life of work and two young children so life has its stresses and we always feel drained etc but lately something just doesn’t seem right. He seems disinterested in me. It’s horrible and upsetting.

We’ve had periods in our marriage before when things seemed a bit mildly rocky but it always seemed to sort itself out but this time it just feels different.

It’s been slowing getting worse over the last few months but this last week I have just been feeling so worried/upset about our marriage and I know I need to speak to DH about it but I’m so scared to because of what the outcome might be.

Talk to him, longer you put it off the more you’re going to be scared. There’s really not anything else you can do and no problem disappears by ignoring it. I hope things work out

Talk to him....

Any signs, red flags, anything changed lately?

Posted too soon

I was going to add to always trust your instinct. If you feel something is up, it probably is xx

Can you get babysitters and have dinner out at wknd? Then you’ve time to talk.

Tell him you need to talk. Once the DC are in bed, turn off the TV/radio, and ask him what is going on. Don't put it off because you're scared of what he might say. It could be any number of things that are causing this distance - a problem at work, a health issue, financial worries - not necessarily another woman.