I’m doubting myself !

[Carley703]

I’ll try and keep it short. Been married 12 years and 4 years in found out Dh was texting an old friend he angry when I confronted him but promised no contact etc . All good anyway last Nov gut instinct kicked in he was over helpful with everything checked the bill calls and texts every month or so to her for the last two years I can’t check back any further ! I kept quiet about it anyway Yesterday he said I’d had an email through his account showed me then deleted something from a different women could actually have been innocent but why delete before giving me the phone. I confronted this morning he left the phone home Saying I could check he’d done nothing wrong and stormed off to work. He’s made me feel like I’m in the wrong but I know what I saw and I’m just really upset feel I should tell him to go but not sure if I’m in the wrong

I'd read back on what you've wrote and think of it in a way of if your friend had said this to you. Because I can guarantee you'd be telling her to leave him.

What he's doing is shady. You have a right to be upset.

I agree... what I suggest you do OP is look in his BLOCK list... he has likely given you the phone thinking he has safely blocked all the email and phone numbers necessary to get you off his back.. check all the block lists for numbers and email addresses.. it's all on there.. you just need to find it.. 🌺

Thanks for replying I just feel like a failure it’s my second marriage! I’ll look and see if I can find who he’s blocked.

good... and OP trust your instincts.. always 💕

@Carley703

Trust your gut. Actually scrap that, trust your EYES. You've SEEN evidence of his lying. You haven't failed here....he has!

Dont doubt yourself never do that, it will come back to bite you xx

how did you get on OP ?

None of the blocked numbers had names! Dh asked if I was ok when he got in and just carried on as if nothing had actually happened. He’s hardly touched his phone and is just laving it on the cupboard now when he’s in so I’m thinking he’s maybe now got another phone. I’m going to speak to him properly tomorrow we both work but off tomorrow. I’m actually thinking of texting the ow to see why she’s still in contact . He’s obviously painting me as a bad person to her from what I’ve seen of the messages and told her he needs to go but that was early last year and in the original messages years ago yet he’s still here . I’m trying to get everything in order money wise etc because I don’t think this will end well ☹️ As for the email he deleted I’ll never know what it was about!

okay... did you take a photo of all the blocked numbers... or a note of them..

you can type the numbers into facebook, and the name 'might' show up .. it depends really on whether they've put the number into their page.... it's an option OP. 🌺

Thanks I didn’t think of that and I did take a screenshot. Will try that later