My friends and I met a bartender a couple years ago on vacation. She’s always been really sweet to us ( yes, I know that’s their job ) We kind of struck up a friendship with her over when we were in town and she’s since moved to another city. I travel for business and a few months back I happened to be in town. I sent her a message to say I’d love to come say hello to her. She responded and told me the name of the place she works. I swing by and am greeted with a hug and we chatted whil she worked. I had to go back recently and since she gave me her number I texted and told her I’d be in town again and would like to say hello again. Response in about 10 minutes and she asked what dates. I told her and she says Cool, you know where I’ll be. I get into town last week and go to the bar and notice she isn’t there. I text and asks if she’s working and she says she was off but is working a lot over the next few days though. So I respond that I was leaving the following afternoon and was hoping to see her, I then ask if she would like to meet me for a drink or coffee and her response was I’m sorry I’m not really feeling up to it. That being said I’ve never thought of her of anything other than a friend. 1. Did she blow me off? 2. Is it possible I sent the wrong signals? 3. If I’m ever back there should I attempt to contact her again?